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We’ve all been there. Long days at work, meetings that never
seem to end, grocery lists that need taking care of – and of course, your
beautiful, supportive and wonderful partner also wants to be tended to, and
by the way, so do you! So what happens when you’re both absolutely exhausted,
but still have a fire lit inside of you?
A great way to connect with your partner and yourself is mutual
masturbation. Guys LOVE seeing a girl give herself pleasure, and what better
(and more effective) way is there to get some when you’re oh-so-tired?
It can be close, wet and slow, or hot and fast. Either way, mutual
masturbation is a great way to get in touch with yourself and your body,
which is always a turn-on for him.
Here are some great ways to get you and your partner prepped for
your satisfaction guaranteed session:
- Start with a shower to get
relaxed, clean, and in the mood for each other. Want to up the
ante by lathering each other up? Score. Get him nice and excited for
you. Kissing and massaging in the shower always works to get the engines
started.
- Get into bed first, while
he’s drying off, and have some lube ready. Start caressing and
pleasuring yourself in a way that is most pleasing to you. Make sure you
have enough lube on your hand for him as well. Feel free to start
stroking his cock while you stroke and rub yourself in front of him.
- Try lying back from time to
time, and let him take over; just relax and receive. Letting him turn
you on and help you to climax may be all he needs to get going and reach
orgasm as well.
- Make sure you include some
spooning, cuddling, and kissing. If there are sexual hot spots –
like nipples, or playing with his balls – tease them while your partner
is pleasuring himself. Have him hold you close while you’re masturbating
as well. These are always sure-fire ways to ignite the sexual fire, and
maintain intimacy during your mutual masturbation session.
Also, keep these things in mind when you’re initiating a mutual
masturbation session:
- Always check in with your
partner. A simple touch on the leg, backrub, or kiss on the back of the
neck can help get things going.
- Your lover may be just as
tired and exhausted, but still hot and bothered, as you are. Remember
that you know them, and they know you! You know how to turn each other
on. Use what you know, and keep communicating, to help your partner get
where they need to go. You might also find out a new spot that turns him
on, or a new way to please him manually or orally later, when you’re
watching him take care of himself.
- Be your confident, sexy,
alluring self. That means sometimes, it might not result in anything
more than falling asleep in each other’s arms before orgasm. But
remember – once you and your partner wake up from your nap, you’ll both
be stimulated from your earlier play, which will just extend your
lovemaking session! Languish in the sweet bliss of napping and pick up
where you left off once you’re awake.
There will always be time for sex, even if it’s not penetrative
or acrobatic. The important thing is to remember your connection, and how
much your partner turns you on, even when the days are too long, the laundry
piles are too high, and the boss’ demands are never-ending.
The sexiest thing at the end of the day is trust, communication,
and intimacy. Have fun, experiment, and get cozy with your lover!
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